| Location | Newcastle Upon Tyne |
| Age | 40 years |
| Date of Birth | 9/1967 |
| Date of Death | 8/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,479 since 24/08/2008 |
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OUR DAUGHTER ELAINE DIED ON 21/08/2008 SHE WAS ONLY 40 YEARS OF AGE AND LEFT BEHIND A LOVING HUSBAND ALEX AND TWO GREAT TEENAGE CHILDREN THE TWINS EMMA AND KARL.
SHE ALSO LEAVES DAD BILLY STEPMAM KATH MAM JUNE AND STEPDAD STEVE SISTERS NICHOLA AND NATALIE AND BROTHERS BILLY ROBERT AND KEVIN. SHE WAS CLOSE TO ALL HER FAMILY INCLUDING NIECES JESSICA FAYE ZOE, KIRSTY AND JAYNI, NEPHEWS WILLIAM SCOTTY AND NATHAN.
AFTER STRUGGLING AS A SINGLE MUM TO PUT HERSELF THROUGH UNIVERSITY SHE GOT A GREAT JOB WORKING FOR THE GOVERNMENT
ELAINE DIED AFTER A SHORT ILLNESS SHE WENT PEACEFULLY IN HER SLEEP.
I AM HER DAD AND ELAINE WAS MY FIRST CHILD I CAN'T BEGIN TO TELL YOU THE HURT I FEEL AT HER GOING THERE JUST SEEMS TO BE SOMETHING NOT RIGHT ABOUT YOUR KIDS DYING BEFORE YOU I KNEW I LOVED HER BUT DID NOT REALISE HOW MUCH I NEEDED HER JUST TO BE THERE.
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only god can tell us why.
To Mam
Im still missing you everyday it crazy and youve been in my thoughts alot recently! missing you loads and loads and had a little cry on my birthday because i wish you could have been here to celebrate with me and karl :(. I always think about you alot around christmas time because just not having you there is to hard to think about! hope im doing you proud and i love you with all my heart love Emz
Well Elaine it has been a whil since i spoke to you on here but your still always in my thoughts. Its 3 years now since you left us so i will bring you up to date with how your kids are. Karl you will be happy to hear is doing great he is in independant living with 2 other lads and a team of very good carers, he goes out quite a lot on his own and is set to get a very good course at college computer based obviously so he is very happy but still talks and rembers time with you. Emma is in in Irsland with Kal and is quite content she is on the phone nearly every day with questions and housekeeping problems for her Nana Kath. Everyone else are fine Nichola is getting to be very happy again after her hard time Natalie is waiting to here about her new house and i now have a driving license a bit late in life i know im finding it quite useful. Billy is doing fine just about over his hard time and has a good job so its onwards and upwards for him.Kevin has a good lass for a partner and is working hard so things could be good for him. and Robert is exactley the same rich one day skint the next but as long as he can get away camping at the weekend hes happy. Kath keeps all the strands pulled together and is there for everyone as usual though she is struggling with pains in her joints and the old age thingy.
Well darling thats about it MY LOVE FOR YOU IS AS STRONG NOW AS IT EVER WAS AND WILL NEVER FADE. YOUR LOVING DAD
Hi sis. You prob already know but im engaged. Im so happy but i wish you were here to share my happiness i know you'd be really excited for me. Really missing you at the moment. xxxx
Missing you alot today sis.Going to see emma tomorrow,just wish you could come with me. Wish you could come home. Love you always Elaine. We'll always be 3 sisters. xxx
hi elaine at the end ov the day we
alwaws knew it was me and you i'm soo sorry elaine i loved you more than the world please forgive me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx at the end of the day elaine me you xxx
hi elaine happy mothers day you would be so proud of emma and karl there both doing so well ive bought u some lovely tulips elaine for mothers day im going to send them up to u on a balloon i hope you get them love you so much elaine and still missing you with all my heart love forever and ever nichola xxxxx
Mam,
Hello Mam, Just thought i'd write because i havent wrote in a while.
I cant believe its a year next sunday since we scattered your ashes, I will always remember that day, it was just a feeling of relief that all of the pain and misery of losing you was over, that you were free to go wherever you are now. I still cant get over the fact that its like 2 years soon, it still feels like it was just yesterday. I can remember everything about that day, it was the worst day of my life, but now things are starting to look up not for me but everybody now. Sometimes i feel guilty because when i talk and think about you now its about the happy times and the good times and i smile; but sometimes i feel like i should be crying. I think its just my way of coping which i know is ok now; everybody copes in there own ways. Ill be taking loads of photos of you and the family when i move so dont worry, ill not forget about you :), how could i? Like some people i talk to say to me "how can you cope with your mam dying, its just heartbreaking" and i just say just think of the good times and the people in my family look after me because they know its the worst thing in the world. Anyways love you loads Mam, forever and ever x
hi elaine i'm really missing you things are not good at the min elaine i miss you soo much i really could do with having one ov our chats xxx
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